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Student Loan Takes Another Big Drop – Thoughts About Life After Repayment
October 21st, 2011 | Added to Student Loans | No Comments »
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Well, it’s been a short while since I wrote the last student loan debt drop entry back at the end of August. The reason for that is because of some major family and professional events that came up over the last few weeks. Many of these family events were really happy, joyous family activities surrounding my older brother’s wedding. So I was a bit preoccupied with those things to stop and focus on writing about my student loan debt, but taking a break for a few weeks isn’t such a bad thing either!

Down to $42 thousand

Planning for all of the family and professional expenses from the last few weeks – amid trying to stick to an aggressive student loan repayment schedule – has been an interesting exercise for me. In short, I’ve been able to stick to a basic repayment schedule while certain funds were diverted for these events – and I’ve been able to stick to a basic schedule without dipping into any of my savings account, which is good. For a guy who works at a nonprofit organization during the day and teaches online at night, you have to admit that this is pretty impressive!

And this exercise has been interesting because it served to show me how rigid my repayment schedule has been over the last few years. What does that mean? Well, for the last six weeks or so I’ve allowed myself to change my focus from putting every extra available dime towards student loan repayment to holding back on every expense/cost ranging from saving money to repaying student loan debt to purchasing certain, necessary new items for my home, etc. And do you know what this exercise has shown me? It’s shown me that once I repay that United States Department of Education student loan, I’m going to have a good amount of money coming in. No, it’s not going to be enough for me to immediately make an impact on other areas of my financial life (i.e. super saving to bolster my retirement funds, buying a house immediately after paying off the loan, etc), but it’s going to be pretty nice.

The trick, though, is to figure out which goal is next.

Do I begin by bolstering my retirement accounts? Do I begin building a major down payment to eventually purchase a house? What about saving for a few months to be able to purchase a brand new car? Maybe I could save money in a series of liquid investments such as CD ladders, money market accounts, generic savings accounts, etc…

I know what I won’t do once this remaining student loan is paid off, though: I won’t try to achieve all of these financial goals at one time. I think that my story – up until this point and God-willing over the next 12 to 18 months – has proven that focus is the key to achieving financial success. I’ve opted to spend the last few years focusing my financial efforts on repaying my student loan debts and I’ve come a pretty long way; far enough to see the light at the end of the tunnel. When I reach the end of this tunnel, I’m not going to be the dog that caught the fire engine and wonders, “What now?” Nope. Instead, I’m going to have a plan of attack for my next big financial focus.

And the great part of this all is that I have a whole year and a half to figure out what that focus is going to be. What about all of you out there in internet land. Do you have any ideas on what my next big financial focus should be once this remaining student loan is paid off? I’d be interested in hearing your ideas!

In May 2006, I graduated from Rutgers University with a Masters Degree and $120,720 in student loan debt. Since I started repaying my student loans in July 2006, I’ve repaid a total of $61 thousand in principal to various lenders including the federal Perkins loan program, the New Jersey Higher Education Student Assistance Authority, and CitiBank. I currently owe $42 thousand in principal to the United States Department of Education’s Direct Loans program – a loan which started repayment in July 2006 with a balance of $59 thousand. To date, I’ve repaid well over $30 thousand in interest to these lenders. Follow my student loan repayment story on JerseySmarts.com.

Congratulations to My Cousin on His Wedding!
February 27th, 2011 | Added to Random Entries | No Comments »
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Yesterday, I was honored to spend the day at my cousin’s Matthew’s wedding. Matt and I were born 5 days apart (I’m older) and have a history of causing ruckus throughout the years. Take this picture from over 20 years ago when we were out on the dock in front of my parents’ house – my cousin is the one on the right side of the picture with the angry look on his face.

From all of those years ago through yesterday and into the future my cousin has been one of my best friends. Here’s hoping for his and Kelly’s happiness in the months and years to come as they begin building their family… starting this summer! Congratulations again!

Incredibly Proud of My Family This Christmas Season
December 27th, 2010 | Added to Winter & Christmas Time | No Comments »
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This year for Christmas, my family made one of the best decisions that I think we’ve ever made as a family. While we were sitting around for my Mom’s birthday celebration in late October, we began talking about what everyone wanted for Christmas this year. I’m sure that you have a similar conversation in your family so that everyone knows which presents to buy. It’s a fairly common occurrence, I think.

While we were beginning the conversation, I said to my Mom, “You know, I don’t really want anything. You don’t have to get anything for me.” And then my older brother jumped in right away and said, “Yeah, me neither. I don’t want anything.” And after that an entire conversation ensued about not purchasing gifts for anyone this year. Our rationale was that we each had different financial goals that we were reaching towards so spending a few hundred bucks (or, very likely, much more) on Christmas gifts that no one was really looking for would be a waste of otherwise scarce financial resources.

Frequent readers of this blog know what I was saving up for this fall/early winter. My older brother is in the process of saving money to buy a house with his fiancée, my younger brother is in the process of paying off a new truck that he bought, and my Mother is in the process of paying off her mortgage and some consumer debt. After having this conversation, we all decided that the best thing to do was to celebrate Christmas with family and friends and leave out the excessive spending on superfluous gifts.

So last Friday night, my Mom hosted our family and extended family for her annual Christmas party and it was a great time as always. Then on Saturday morning my older brother made breakfast and we enjoyed not spending a ton of money on otherwise unlooked for presents. Except for my younger brother, that is, who swore up and down that we left that conversation back in late October with the idea that we might not buy presents. This, of course, means that he was either lying through his teeth about not remembering how we left the conversation last October or that he wasn’t paying attention when we decided to not buy anything. Anyway, it doesn’t really matter if only one person didn’t stick to the rules of not buying anything, I guess.

Leaving my Mom’s house with only a few items marked one of the better Christmases that I think I’ve had in a long time. :-)

Quick Happy Birthday Wishes to My Older Brother
September 28th, 2010 | Added to Random Entries | 1 Comment »
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Not a long, extensive entry for you folks today. Instead, I’m just wishing my older brother Anthony a happy 31st birthday! Hard to believe that he’s that old, but then again it’s hard to believe that he turned 30 last year so – I guess this is just the next in the series! Happy birthday, Anthony. Enjoy!

My Cousin Gets A Big Time Endorsement From An Industry Magazine
July 24th, 2010 | Added to Random Entries | 2 Comments »
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Yesterday, my cousin who lives out in Las Vegas (soon to be back in New Jersey) sent me a message that some of the work that she’s been doing will be featured in an upcoming edition of Nail Pro magazine. Congratulations go out to my cousin, Lisa! To celebrate, I’ve added an image below of her work that can currently be seen NailPro.com’s Gallery page.

Congratulations again to my cousin! Nice work!

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